“He who refuses
to accept the truth, is he who lives in vain hope to erase eternal envy.”
For
men who have studied game concepts, red pill tuition, female emotional
psychology, or just opened their eyes to see the truth once or twice in life, it
will come as no fall off your seat statement that most men (probably somewhere
between 80% to 90% of men) live in the world of blue pill swallowing when it
derives to their views on women. It’s
strange to then think that some of these men come across as bitter, pessimistic
and negative towards life in general, because you would think that if someone
is prepared to face up to life’s tribulations, inconsistencies, unfairness and hypocrisy,
they would find it more than adaptable to see women for who they are. It probably has something to do with being
obsessed with what a female possesses between her legs, and allowing this one
factor alone to cloud their judgment.
Of
this vast majority percentage, some men are fundamental lapdogs who try and
make out they are the boss in the relationship.
If you ever see that gobby, loud, brash big guy who makes out he has
loads of women on the go and that he is in control of any woman in his company,
yet then you curiously overhear him creeping up to her and apologizing
pitifully on the phone, then this is your man.
It doesn’t matter how many tattoos you put on a man or how much bullshit
he tells his mates, the only thing that matters is how he acts when with the
respective female partner.
Much
to do with the illustration of the above explained kind of guy is due to
oneitis mentality that men hold. Most
men are run of the mill when it comes to attracting the opposite sex - certainly
when it comes to attracting members of the opposite sex who are physically attractive
enough in worth committing to – therefore when they land their dick in a moist
pool they forget that women are indeed interchangeable and replaceable. Even for every beautiful woman, there is a
man who is tired, or will be one day tired, of dipping in the same puddle.
Even
men who do acknowledge that one woman is just one commodity can relinquish much
of this necessary mindset if poor moves are made in life. Ultimately, having children, whether through
choice or female contriving, will tame a man that bit more than before. If he sticks around and builds a family, his
freedom to participate in much of the activities undertaken in pre-parentage
life vanishes. It’s never a bad time to
remind men that women, despite their claims to the contrary, find a man more sexually
attractive before he becomes a father to her child. It’s worth repeating the “her” part to the
last sentence. Nevertheless, most other
women will find him more attractive as a father, and this fatherhood label can
be used beneficially if he is clued up enough to know why.
Q-tip 1:
Don’t be fooled by words
from a woman claiming she has never found her man sexier since becoming a
father to her child. What he has
ultimately done, in the short term only, is make her like him more for giving
her what her maternal (and social network exploitation) instincts hunger. Fatherhood makes men less masculine in human
behaviour, and over time this reduced masculinity results in reduced sexiness –
to the mother. On the other hand, women
outside the mother of his child find him sexier than before, because women are
naturally and uncontrollably drawn towards what is more forbidden. A man who is a father is more off limits, in
theory, than a non-parent man.
However,
far more damaging than fatherhood is marriage.
Not dissimilar to pre and post becoming of a parent, the respective
woman loses attraction towards her now husband in comparison to her once
boyfriend. Women are most charming when
they have something to fight for, earn or accomplish, and they lose this charm
once acquired. Nothing epitomizes this
more than marriage. Once she has got
what she came for, the man has very little more to offer her other than a
family – something else she uses him for priority of her plans, ahead of the
love of he, family life together, or his needs.
Then
consider a near one in two divorce rate, and the less loyal, and more
self-obsessed and selfish modern day woman that is commonplace of today. Every woman will pronounce the vows for vows’
sake on the big day, but they will give up on the marriage at the first
opportunity and leave without a tear in her eye. In the meantime, the likely scenario of the
man financially contributing far more into the bond over the years will disappear
before his eyes. She gave up on their
partnership first, but she takes what I put in, he may ask in bemusement. Unfortunately, this is just the way it is,
say the court laws.
Male
peer pressure
Of
course, if most men belong to the blue pill world, it is a given to say that
these men feel more comfortable in a world where as many men as possible join
the commitment and marriage line. The
more married men in society, the less, in theory, men there are for their wives
to cheat with.
A
man like me, whilst never saying never, who would not get married through
choice, receives a lot of pressure from the typical married man. My answer/question is always one of: “How can
marriage benefit my life?” - to which this is usually followed by a pause and
quiet acceptance of my point.
Some
men though are more aggressive on this non-conforming subject. I recently had a
discussion with an early 60’s man at the gym who thinks it’s time I popped the
question. Again, my dismissal is
intimated at putting if off as long as possible. He replied by questioning what
if she gives me an ultimatum, to which my response is I’d have to strongly
question whether she is the right person to place someone into a corner in such
a way. After more pointless reasoning by
him, I just said “There are another million beautiful women in the world.” He has been a little cold shouldered since
that conversation.
Final
thoughts
And
I’d sum this up by using a married 60 year old man as a good example. He’s out of touch with the modern day:
- For one, less people are getting
married year on year, replaced instead by shared living arrangement to
compensate.
- Second, men have far more
alternatives today to mitigate the need or desire for marriage. Women also have more options to abstain,
but I still think that the general female craving for marriage is just as
high, if not higher, than it ever has been. It’s just that less will fulfill this
dream due to male boycotting and refusal to conform to society preferences.
- Third, weddings, marriage, family
life, and satisfying female materialism and status needs are out of the
lion’s share of men’s economic capabilities. Many men are assessing the benefits to
consequences scenario, with the latter thoughts far outweighing the former
in both number and magnitude.
- Fourth, women are becoming less
attractive – both aesthetically and in personality terms – for men to put
their necks on the line like once before.
- Fifth, and probably most
important, is the fact that previous generations of married men are now
coming forward, whether in general anecdotal chit chat with their buddies
or anonymous online guidance, to warn younger men at the prime marriage
age (early 20’s to mid 30’s) about the rigours and risks of married life
(mainly their wives getting fatter, sexually withdrawing, and becoming more
miserable), and inevitable divorce (emotional, psychological and financial
negative implications).
Q-tip 2:
The best advice about
marriage rarely comes from a current, even if unhappy, married man. His pride and desperation for marriage
survival will cloud his honest words, up until he reaches breaking point. The most genuine, effective and pertinent
advice will arrive from the mouths of divorced men, simply because they no longer
need to protect their wives or live in vain hope of a brighter day. They have accepted the truth, and conceded
their mistakes. This is why many men in
their 30’s, 40’s or 50’s will tell you that, if they were 10, 20 or 30 years
younger, they wouldn’t go through marriage again.
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