“Advertise the
product. Your most valuable product is
yourself.”
Like
most men out there, I have a collection of t-shirts that represent various
designers, colours and fittings. One
element of the t-shirt offering that has recently struck my train of thought is
the message, or emblem, that sends off a projected sign onto women in moving
their emotive feelings.
As
one of the more eye catching guys out there – in facial features and body
profile – I can speak first hand that a certain garment of clothing can make or
break top end physically attractive men’s success with women. In truth, there are many variables that will
determine the fluctuation of their emotions when they see what they see. If it enhances a man’s look, the likelihood
is only women who are not adversarial to male impressive viewing, or women who are
conscious they are still above him in physical attractiveness relativity, will
embrace the vision he produces. Most
other women, with the exception of his mother, will likely greet it with
jealousy, hostility, insecurity and knowledge of him being unattainable.
Women
are instinctive, and they are certainly not stupid in respect to physical
attractiveness comparison and the way men’s minds work. They know the vast majority of men strive to
locate a woman who is at least as aesthetically impressive as himself. Those men who do not succeed in this
deliverable are usually because they are extremely good looking but lacking in
other desirable metrics (as most hot women seek out high status men who are
likely to be lesser looking), or they are men with little confidence or
knowledge of interaction strategy and female emotional psychology. In the latter case, they take this safer bet
in a not dissimilar manner to how most women will place subconscious
predilections to not date a better looking man.
It’s rare for anyone to fulfill true happiness through this chain of
events.
Nevertheless,
as over 95% of men would be classed as falling into the average looking
category when assessed upon the whole male adult population, it’s needless to
say that a more eye catching dress style, within reason, will predominantly
improve their attraction onto women.
This also further applies to ugly men.
Both average looking and ugly men should take advantage of the clothing
luxury that pleases, rather than repels, women.
The
two t-shirts I will make reference to are items I have owned for over 6
years. Lucky for me, they still fit and
haven’t been passed by other trends.
Both of them are well fitted. In
the case of the first t-shirt, it has a picture and writing of “Superman”. I can honestly and genuinely say that when I
first saw it hanging in the boutique, my first thought was how good the t-shirt
looked. For the first few years it was
only a passing thought to the fact some people may have thought I believed I
was a “super-man”. However, passing
comments in more recent years brought about fresh thinking towards people’s perceptions.
The
second t-shirt had a large centre logo of a playboy magazine cover front from
the 1970s. It also states the word of
“Playboy”. Again, the literal meaning
played little part, and back then I wouldn’t have even known of the dictionary
definition of a playboy. My primary mind
was tuned towards the fit, colour and eye catching emblem.
Six
years on, and it brings a rise smile to my face in terms of how women, and some
men, have responded during nights out.
What strikes me the most with women’s reactions aligns with my general
belief to how you should view female emotions when faced with their thinking
towards men. They know not what they
want, and they say not what they do. In
translation: how their poignant behaviour was conducted could soon be
contradicted by how they ultimately acted with me. Derogatory and condescending comments about
the words on the t-shirts were swiftly followed by more intimate and future
proposals.
So
taking each garment separately: why was this the case? Why was a negative verbal delivery ended with
a consequential positive outcome? Now,
the cynic will say that a woman needs a level of attraction in the first place
and it will eventually overpower any other emotion. This is true to a degree, but as explained
earlier, stand out dress sense for a high physically attractive man can also
have the adverse effect and it results in being counter-productive.
With
the “Superman” t-shirt, or one showing a similar message, an immediate common
female response is to make a woman think that a man who has the audacity and
apparent arrogance to wear something of this nature is a complete vain asshole
who could never be good relationship material to her. Most women, and especially hot women, do not
take a liking to a visual of a man in sight who is objectively as, or more, eye
catching than them. Until a woman has
committed to a man, or she has made a conscious decision to contemplate a
future with him, she feels the desired need to believe a man is always
attainable to her. It’s her way of
convincing herself she isn’t missing out on anything. However, her visceral feelings are telling
her something else. A logo of this kind
illustrates confidence, superiority and uniqueness. All these traits are high up on a woman’s
wish list. As always, the ultimate emotions
are far more valid than negative primary thoughts.
The
“Playboy” t-shirt would also take a woman through a similar process. The instincts within her enforce a reaction
of believing this man is too big for his own boots, or a cocky self-indulged guy
she would never go near. Her safer
average male partner is a far better option, or at least this is what she tries
to tell herself. A woman does not want a
man who would cheat on her, but she does want a man who could potentially cheat
on her. In other words, no woman, unless
she is of total low calibre (hence, extremely physically unattractive), holds
cravings to be with a man who no other woman finds attractive. So a t-shirt that signals messages of
pre-selection, higher status, exclusivity and a desired man is everything a
woman could ask for in a quality sexual mate.
He may not be, but what is more important in time restricted
environments is how she perceives him to be.
After this, he can use his charisma, personality, interaction strategy
and knowledge of women to seal the deal.
In
the case of both t-shirts, all they fundamentally achieved was to deflate a
woman’s ego and feeling of self-superiority.
This may sound like a bad predicament, but wise people know that a woman
who is constantly comfortable in the presence of a man – in interaction, dating
or relationship phase – is a woman who will end up resenting being with
him. And she will likely resent herself
first, but her default is to take it out on the man she is underwhelmed
with. Whenever a woman’s ego is
prickled, to an extent and at the right moments, she is more sexually attracted
to him. Women don’t like things to come
easily to them when it involves an intimate dynamic with a man. They like to see his higher value.
Q-tip:
You will sometimes see or
hear a woman use the words of “gorgeous”, “hot” and “sexy” in the direction of
her lesser looking, and usually average looking, boyfriend. This is a woman’s deployment to raise value
onto him, over and above what the outside world see in objective form. Deep down, the woman voicing these adjectives
is fully aware of her over-hyped promotion towards his physical attractiveness
level, but she is vainly attempting to reassure her mind that nothing is being
missed out on in her life. She is also
weakly trying to convince the watching world that she is so “happy” with what
she has. A woman sitting in this predicament will know she could have
done better in looks stakes, and she knows there are inundated men out there
who she finds more appealing in a sexual way, but confidence, trust, insecurity
and egoism issues never quite allowed her to go down that route.
When
all is said and done, if t-shirts of this magnitude can enhance good looking
men’s fortunes, it will be two-fold and three-fold in beneficial multiples for
average looking and ugly men respectively.
Next time a man purchases a t-shirt, he may be prudent to translate the
message into how a woman will sexually perceive him to be once it is placed
over his shoulders.
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