“Blind faith may
keep certain people alive, but it sure is a lousy way to live life.”
Regular
readers of this blog will be aware how much I am adversarial towards the female
ego and the destruction it can cause.
Naïve men, as most men are, suffer the most because their default
mechanism enforces belief that they must keep trying harder to please a woman
in conjunction to the more she demands and promotes her world. The typical man will just keep throwing more coins
into the wishing well in hope she appreciates what he does each time. Women are also big losers in falling flat on
their face due to their own ego, as what they say is most admirable to their
requests is in fact contradicting how it impacts on their ultimate happiness.
Oxford
Dictionary definition of ego:
the self, the part of the
mind that is aware of itself as an individual.
With
most women, their instinctive thought process goes via their ego chain of
process. When they refer to desires in belonging
to a man who is nice, kind and giving to them all the time, this is the primary
words that are formed from the ego. It
makes a woman feel good about herself, but it goes against a woman’s innate
function to be challenged and seek things in life that do not come along
without a fight. So a woman will often
date a nice guy because of her immediate voice within telling the brain this is
what will make her feel special, but over time this habit causes resentment as
the man makes it all too easy for her.
More often than not, with women who still have options on their side,
they will depart from the guy who placed it on a plate.
Similarly,
women will state the opposite about men who are apathetic towards their
existence. They will claim they despise the
way this small segment of the male population (although many women will be
adamant it is the majority of male society) act more selfish, less giving and
with an attitude that interprets to her that she is only one female in a planet
of millions others worth taking. A
woman’s sour facial expression towards a man of this nature would allow a
clueless person to think she would never give him the time of day. However, once the dust has settled and the
antagonism has diffused, you will notice how many women are uncontrollably
drawn to men who couldn’t give a toss to the crown she so usually has
polished.
But
with some women, and especially those who are rarely accustomed to apathy and
always familiar with supplication – hence very cute or hot women – the female
ego will even stand in the way of going with their sexual feelings in order to
protect the pride. So whilst she may be
grueling at the thought of getting it in with something that isn’t in the palm
of her hands, a woman can vainly convince her mind that this man is not worth
her special value to planet earth. With
this in mind, she will choose an unchallenging nice guy, only to end up
unhappy. In a fairytale story where she
was informed as a little girl to run with her heart, she didn’t bargain for a
defensive shield to stand in the way.
The acting barrier is better known as her ego.
Less
observant folk may think, with a level of reasoning, that a woman’s relative
physical attractiveness is aligned with the magnitude of her ego. There is more to this than meets the eye,
because although you would expect it to be the case, external aspects of life
implicate on the way female egoism leverages and fades.
Female
age 16 to 18
A
young girl approaching adult life but with no responsibilities is beginning to
produce something a little more projected onto her worthiness. As she starts to see the mirror reflection
transform from a spotty teenager to an alluring fresh woman, it can bring about
thoughts to make her believe she is becoming special. Boys should now give more, she thinks.
Nevertheless,
although girls at this tender age are just as efficient at mind games and
manipulations with the male gender as their elder female counterparts, the lack
of life experience somewhat restricts the bar to how far the ego can
stretch. So whilst girls at this stage
in their life may be running self-consciousness and cunning games in
simultaneous timeframes, their actual ego is still a long way from reaching its
height.
Ego
scale: 7/10
Female
age 19 to 23
Although
a healthy lifestyle and absence of kids should result in women’s beauty going
beyond 23, the reality is a high percentage of them do in fact peak during this
phase. It may be a case of unfortunate
genetics or a couple too many beers and burgers during their college party
days, but many will look back in their rocking chairs to realize the most
embraced photographs belong to an age that sits from 19 to 23.
In
terms of their escalated ego in this period, it will be increasing but not yet
optimized. This is where the threshold
is of pinnacle ego is still below the optimum physical attractiveness they
possess. The reason is that they are
still prioritizing good time hunting over self-importance needs, and they are
far more susceptible to poor choices with men treating them badly than safe
bets to maintain damaged pride. Women at
this young age can come across as the least friendly and engaging they will
ever be, but this isn’t to be mistaken with possessing the strongest ego.
Ego
scale: 8/10
Female
age 24 to 28
The
mirror, depending whether they are on the low or high side of this duration, is
showing the best it ever has or signs of an imperceptible decline. In truth, women who look after their
lifestyle should be most glamorous in this timeframe, but many miss the
boat. If they are still sailing, they
have the luxury of youthful image combined with mature physical
development. That said, once 25 is
passed their metabolisms will slow down, and treadmills are a greater necessity
concurrent to cream cakes being less forgiving.
The
ego of a woman is now becoming a monster.
Not only is she looking good, but a woman at this age will be surrounded
by male dominated workplaces with desperate men striving to get into her pants. This only compounds her belief that the world
is hers for the taking. Further to this,
odd doubts of her fragmenting beauty enforce a nasty habit to go fishing for
compliments and seeking attention that little bit more than her younger self. So even at 28, where the best physical
attractiveness days are quite possibly behind her, the ego will be at the top
of the mountain.
Ego
scale: 10/10
Female
age 29 to 35
Apart
from absolute isolated exceptions, women have are now past their sell by date
for a portrait that shows the most splendor.
Sure, at the younger extreme of this period they can still look mighty
fine, but even then it would be unusual to be more striking to the eye than a
few years ago.
With
natural beauty diminishment runs simultaneous reduced egos. Nevertheless, it can still be higher than the
objectivity should allow. Those who were
on the fortunate side of hotness will, if clever, now be tied down with good
earning men who spend plenty of money to keep them “happy”. All this manifests to a female product that,
whilst comprehensive of her embraced photos belonging to the archives, holds
inclinations to show her peers the affluent house she resides in and the latest
pair of shoes the sucker husband has purchased for her.
Ego
scale: 8.5/10
Female
age 36 to 40
Even
if a woman in her late 20s or 30s chose to live in denial of her lack of beauty
in comparison to younger days, once she reaches 36 it will be pretty hard to
even reassure her own vain hope that she is still wanted as much as ever. The lack of attention cannot be hidden from.
The
ego will again run down the stream at the same pace. There is no longer the demands once placed,
and admission to other tactics is required if she still harbours ambitions for
the flame to keep burning. Expect women
now to become much friendlier and receptive to male advances. These male advances will be of lower quality
than before.
Ego
scale: 6/10
Female
age 40+
Not
to put too fine a point on it, unless she has a footballer’s wife lifestyle to
exploit, this isn’t even worth consideration.
Having said this, there are still odd women who simply cannot let go of
their past.
Ego
scale: 5/10
Make no mistake about it, the female ego truly is a beast that needs taming sooner, rather than later. Men should take note of the differing ego scales as time moves on, and realize that they do not need to exert unnecessary financial expenditure, emotional investment and time when she is at her most valuable. Her stipulations, in view of mother time, cannot be taken seriously.
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