“You can’t win unless you learn how to lose. (Kareem Abdul-Jabbar)
Call me behind the contemporary times, or simply being savvy in spending my time on useful reading, pastimes or alike, but I’d never heard of this feral girl summer rubbish until a few days ago. Like most female memes of today, the words mean little to the substance. In other words, anyone can say anything they like, but if they don’t act out these words in practice, or they always have a price where they bow down to hypocrisy, then the meme isn’t worth the paper it’s written on as far as I’m concerned.
What is a feral girl?
Why hear it from me, when you can hear it from a feral girl herself linked to this article:
“To be "feral" is to go against the expectation to be more organized and more optimized, or to strive for a clean lifestyle. As this TikToker put it, "I will never wake up at 5am to drink green juices and be hyper organized. I will instead be in 4am reddit holes, diet coke first thing in the morning." It's like a more energized version of goblin mode.
What is feral girl summer?
Once more, answered by the feral girl…
Feral girl summer is the act of causing good trouble and having carefree times at any location in 2022 — from party settings to the pantry — during the summer season.
Above all, feral girl summer encourages tossing caution (in regard to fear of judgment, at least) to the wind and having fun.
“Time to wreak havoc, cause chaos, align your rodent chakras, and just completely get after it,” one post on TikTok about feral girl summer encouraged. “Life is supposed to be fun.”
In easy language…
Allow me to give you a proper and honest explanation to what these young (and some older) women are saying.
In essence, a feral girl (or a woman on a feral girl summer) is effectively thinking that she can do what she wants without any accountability, without any responsibility, without a care to what people think of her, without any concern to the consequences it brings on herself or other people, and without any thought to the judgement those will have on her actions and life choices. In that same timeframe, she believes that other people, including male suitors, should and will just accept her for what her all so mighty presence brings to the world.
Why do women get away with this?
As pitiful as this attitude and life execution is, the reality is that a high percentage (>60%) of women in the western world will get away with this to a great extent. I offer the following reasons why:
· An oversized male population (>80%) which consists of weak beta males, lapdogs, men lacking any grain of knowledge in how to deal with women and put them in their place, men so desperate for sex that they turn a blind eye to any female habit that in reality is a huge distaste to them, and men who have no idea how to tell a woman that the choices she makes will be a big mistake.
· A growing “girl power” and feminist culture we live in - brainwashing young women into thinking they can just live a fun life, and any mistakes can be picked up by others or resurrected later down the line.
· A lack of firm father figure leadership to forbid her from making poor decisions in life.
· Single parent upbringing where fathers are, either entirely or in the main, absent from offering any guidance or opinion on key decisions in her lifestyle.
· Mothers, older sisters, older female friends, and older female work colleagues or social acquaintances who, such is the year-on-year growth of female immaturity and fear of getting older, promote the whole “fun girl” lifestyle rather than providing efficient advice to what will benefit said feral girl the most.
· The social media craze that promotes women to exploit their fun-loving lifestyle to show the world they are having such an exciting time out there.
The problem with this is….
Sure, women can get away with this mentality, way of living, and behaviour with most men – as explained in the first bullet point above. These men are low sought-after in the dating market, and as the majority of men fall into this bracket, there will nearly always be a male taker for any half-decent (or greater) looking woman out there.
The problem arises when women actually desire, and why wouldn’t they, a higher sought-after man. These men are much rarer and harder to find, as men in this coveted compartment are found in a ratio of at least 1:5 in comparison to good-looking women. In theory then, these men will not only select a hot woman, but they will decide which woman is worthy of his selection based on other desirables (mainly personality, small number of sexual partner history, lifestyle, loyalty, faithfulness, and likeability) she can bring to the table.
Therefore, if women aspire for more than just the run of the mill man who makes her feel better about herself due to his comparative physical ugliness and willingness to kiss her rosy ass, then she needs to think about the repercussions to her implementations.
Feral girl lifestyle is unforgiving
The other big consideration, and most likely the biggest implication, to this pathetic feral girl conditioning is the fact that this lifestyle takes no prisoners free of charge. I’ve seen it with my own two eyes on countless occasions.
Just in the last few weeks I could count on two hands where I’ve seen women in the gym – ranging from cute (7/10) to lower hot (8/10), who seem to flip flop between two to three weeks of regular attendance, followed by a no show for a couple of weeks. On each and every occasion on their return, there is a pronounced level (even though not excessive) of extra fat sitting in their arses, upper thighs, arms and neck on the first day when coming back to training.
I’d hedge a fair bet that this decreased attendance at the gym in this truancy timeframe coincided with a few too many nights out, accompanied with poor dietary routine. The point is, even at a female age of late teens or early twenties, a woman’s body is, absent of incredibly kind genetics, unforgiving to a lapse in physical exercise and increase in higher/poorer calorie intake.
The smartest women know what the highest quality men hunger from them, and these women tailor their lifestyle to suit said man’s requirements. The dumber women, or perhaps the most arrogant and ignorant women, simply do what they (women) want to do, in either naively believing any man will make any dispensations for her fun-loving times, or more likely knowing she can always settle for the masses of low regarded men who will always be forgiving to her ill-advised choices.
A final thought
One thing I will say, as a saving grace if it can be seen such a way, is that the majority of women, even women who hold a far greater need for attention, self-indulgence and ego massaging (which just so happens to be most women of today in the west) than the motivation to be attractive to men, are smart enough to know where the boundaries lie in terms of how far a said feral girl can push these limits.
What I mean by this is that whilst a woman loves the feeling of feeling better about herself and holding thoughts that the world is watching her, most of them do usually hold the knowledge to be comprehensive that sleeping around with men quicker than they can lift their pants up from the last one who nailed her is not productive at all. No man is attracted to a woman who attains a reputation for sleeping around no matter how hot she is, and this even includes the most desperate and undesirable men out there. If a certain man still goes for this kind of woman, it isn’t because he is turned on by her notch count. It is because he is desolate and petrified that this slag is the only woman who will take him.
With this acknowledged, it kind of all loopholes back to how the modern-day western woman can be summarised. In essence, her ego is bigger than her heart, but she will still moderate this obsession for attention and feel-good factor in order to eradicate any brakes being placed on the best life she can provide for herself.
Hey Vinay, I had a question. Whenever I talk to a girl and she’s not put off or intimidated by my advances, like asking her out, touching her more sexually, like grabbing her ass a little when I pass or general things like that, she always ends up saying she has a boyfriend. But she doesn’t say it whenever I touch her or ask her out, she only says it after going out with her for awhile. And she says super casually, out of nowhere she talks about her boyfriend. What does that mean? Is she up to cheating on him? Has that happened to you? Cause it’s happened a couple of times already with different girls, and every time it’s the exact same process.ReplyDelete
Hi mate, hope you are well?Delete
That's an interesting one. First of all I strongly suggest in the first conversation that you ask her if she is seeing anyone. If she says no (but later says she is), then there is not much you could have done better - as you can only take her on face value to her words (in spite of so many women lying all the time). From my experience, most women will tell you the truth if they have a boyfriend or someone they are seeing. In spite of all the negatives western women attain, most women still don't cheat on their boyfriends.
If she is seeing someone (but she tells you she isn't), this is where it gets more complex. One possibility is she is not totally into her "man", and she is down for some side action with you. The more likely reason however is that she is just after some more male attention, and she is just using you for this to feel better about herself and show off to her female acquaintances. Another likelihood is that she is using the time to get to know you and work out whether you are a better option overall than her current prospect. Stick or twist scenario....
In a nutshell, they are the most likely avenues to her thought-process. To emphasize once more, you can save yourself a lot of wasted time, by and large, in asking her what her relationship status is in the first conversation you strike up.
Ok, thanks Vinay, I’ll follow your advice. And it was interesting cause I kept reading your blog trying to see if you’ve maybe mentioned this, but I couldn’t find any. I think they just wanted attention from the good looking guy who they weren’t gonna go all the way with. But I won’t make the same mistake. I’ll always ask them if they have a boyfriend from now on. Thanks Vinay.Delete
No problem mate. Yes, ask early on regarding her relationship status.Delete
Take another read of: https://www.vinaywcmd.com/2022/01/dealing-with-time-wasting-women.html
There are so many time wasting and lying women out there - in addition to all the things they do to just feel better about themselves, with little concern to the consequences it has on others - that if you can establish whether she has no intention to get real with you, then you can just close that chapter there and then and move on to the next woman you like.
Also take another read of:
I think many men don't ask a woman if she has a boyfriend in fear of being disappointed and having his bubble burst once she has shown interest. Also, I'd hedge a fair bet most men, naively, just assume that if a woman gives him pronounced eye contact then she is single and wanting to take things further. Nothing could be further from the truth with reference to the most physically attractive men.
Kind of ironically, if a woman gives an average to above average looking man the same indicators, there is far more chance she is serious to move things on with this lesser looking said man. I will have elaborated on this reasoning in many previous posts.
Ok, thanks Vinay, you’re a very good mentor, I haven’t seen anyone else talk about this subject in the way that you do. I’ll make sure to read those posts. Thanks again.Delete
No problem Adrian, and good luck.Delete
Likewise I agree. There isn't much literature or information out there on this subject. I assume the main reason behind this is because most people do these things for monetary gains, therefore naturally they will focus on advice, topics and audience that reflects the masses. Can't say I blame them, but the occasional drip of reality on topics of this kind wouldn't go a miss.