“As long as we have a choice, we have a chance.”
Where does time go when you consider this post was written nearly seven years ago. Has much changed in your life since then? I guess in all walks of life, certain aspects seem like a million years ago in so far as similarity to once was, whilst other things have completely stood still. I digress…
There is a young blonde in the gym I go to who I first saw a few months ago. She’s pretty cute and has a good figure, although I doubt she is a day over twenty. She strikes the no man’s land female character of walking around with a level of self-consciousness and slight nervousness, yet she clearly holds strong desires to meet a potential boyfriend in there. She has given indicators of interest to at least another couple of men in that I've seen. She is friendly enough on the face of it, in fact on the couple of occasions when it appeared she was waiting for the same machine as me, she has been more than receptive.
It’s dawned on me three times now that the “waiting” and walking to the same equipment has not been a coincidence. Just the other day she walked up to the area I had been working out, to which I swiftly moved on. She then, after moving to another part of the gym in looking disinterested in doing any productive training, walked towards another area where I had been training.
Although I had moved at least five yards away, after wiping it down, from the relative equipment on the second occasion in order to perform cool down stretching (therefore it was obvious I had finished there), she came up to me and asked if I had finished. Once more, she was more than amiable. I can think of dozens of women of over the years who would go out there way to avoid being even close to me or not talking to me, therefore I can only applaud girls like her. Nevertheless, considering she is young enough to be a potential love child of mine (and she looks as young as she is, assuming she is nineteen), I felt somewhat awkward to be near her.
It’s a forgivable task for a man to feel a little sorry for a woman like her – someone who attains a likeable persona and who clearly wants a man in her life. Nevertheless, always remember that a cute woman will conceivably have at least a dozen male suitors who would give their right arm to be with her. The problem lies that, and in particular at her young age, she wouldn’t want to be with any of them.
Why on these occasions?
There are a few reasons her lingering was more pronounced than usual. I highlight the main three:
· Women will hold uncontrollable moves to be near certain men within a small window in their menstrual cycle. Rather than me go on about it now, read this previous post for an extensive explanation. I’d hedge a fair bet she was either at the start or slap bang in the middle of her most fertile week. The fact she was wearing hot pants for the first time in there that I’d seen only reinforces this likelihood.
· Nearly all women are attracted to older men on a natural and instinctive basis. Women who go for younger men are generally acting out a role of pleasuring their own egos rather than pleasuring their hearts. Whilst most women therefore do prefer older men, the number of years older does depend on the woman herself. Whilst in a minority, I’ve known more than a small number of women in their teens or early twenties who will actively (or at least be totally receptive to his advances) be attracted to men who are ten, fifteen or even twenty years their senior. Once more, I get the feeling she is one of these young women.
· I was sporting a fresh haircut from the day prior. A trim for a man usually makes him look two to three years younger than before his visit to the hairdresser. Once more, a younger woman (or more to the point, a younger looking woman) will take kindly to an older man looking that bit more youthful than usual.
· A certain type of male fragrance can attract a certain type of woman. On this particular day I just so coincidentally happened to be wearing a younger man’s eau de toilette in comparison to a more mature fragrance. This may come across as a contradiction to my exposition regarding her liking towards older men, but it also goes in line with how a younger woman will like an older looking man (older looking than herself) who dresses and smells closer to her age.
Age dependant fragrances
Irrespective of a man’s age, it is still beneficial for a man to armour himself with a number of different fragrances. Not only does this separate him from the predictability factor of a woman always knowing what he will smell like, but it also provides him with a level of flexibility in attracting various women who walk past his footsteps.
And I would expect that most men who aren’t already committed to one woman (and many men who are happy to adulterate too) will go through phases when they would like to sleep with differing types of women. One month you may like slimmer women with smaller tits, yet the next month may be more lookout time for curvaceous broads with bigger baps? This week it may be blondes, but tomorrow it could be brunettes or a rare redhead? Maybe you aren’t a man who only likes women with longer hair, and you have spells of a girl with a bob style? Perhaps you spin plates in your mind with various female race, culture, nationalities, or skin colour? And finally, are you currently in the phase of women younger than you, but soon it will be those a bit older or closer to your age?
Which fragrances for which women?
I’m not going to front, and I have to concede that I still own a few last drops of those fragrances owned seven or more years ago. Lost potency? More than probable. With that said, there are some additions. This is how I would compartmentalize female preference:
Fragrance Female Age Group
Yves Saint Laurent Intense >31
Dolce & Gabbana Light Blue 26 to 30
Mont Blanc Legend 26 to 30, >31
Mont Blanc Legend Intense 26 to 30, >31
Armani code 23 to 25, 26 to 30
Armani code Profumo 18 to 22, 23 to 25
Hugo Boss The Scent Intense 26 to 30, >31
Viktor & Rolf Spicebomb 26 to 30, >31
Viktor & Rolf Spicebomb Fresh 26 to 30
Hollister So Cal 18 to 22, 23 to 25, 26 to 30
Hollister So Cal Sunset 18 to 22
Abercrombie & Fitch Fierce 18 to 22, 23 to 25
Hugo Boss Bottled Intense 26 to 30
Issey Miyake L’Eau D’Issey All female ages
Dior Homme Parfum 26 to 30, >31
Hugo Boss Bottled The Night 23 to 25, 26 to 30
Prada Luna Rosa 18 to 22, 23 to 25
Tom Ford Black Orchid 26 to 30, >31
Tom Ford Velvet Orchid 26 to 30
Absence of absolution and with consideration to against the law of averages, the more (within reason) feminine or moderately sweet the scent, the more likely the younger the woman to who it will attract and appeal to. Conversely, the more masculine or vetiver the scent, the greater likelihood it will attract and appeal to their older female counterparts.
A final thought
Whilst I haven’t exactly been stamping in data on my phone when observing the relationship between each fragrance and the women it appeared to attract and ignite, I do have a knack of my subconscious thoughts later manifesting to conscious realization. With this in mind, all the above is based on my honest experience.
It is also important and worthwhile noting that a certain male fragrance on one man can often smell different to the equivalent on another man. Each man’s skin will enhance, or otherwise, certain aroma. This is always why, prior to investment, that you ensure the respective fragrance is sampled on your skin and left to settle for at least five minutes, and not sprayed on a perfume card or similar that are supplied at airports or department stores. I’ve made this mistake at least once in my life.
As a final caveat to the above, if a woman acts with considerably less maturity than her birth certificate reflects (which is a large and growing percentage of women in modern western society), there are greater odds that she will be more inclined to go for men smelling of younger male fragrances. On the other hand, and like the woman in this anecdote, women who act with maturity and personality beyond their years will be more open to odours (good ones!) identified with older men.