tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post8945499675787988967..comments2024-03-16T15:29:13.544+01:00Comments on Women's choices: men's divorces : Detecting a woman’s attraction or otherwiseVi Nayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13032920019978546878noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-77101844791281672552022-11-23T21:23:30.237+01:002022-11-23T21:23:30.237+01:00All right, thanks Vinay, I’ll do as you said, and ...All right, thanks Vinay, I’ll do as you said, and I’ll keep in mind what you said too. Sorry about the time delay, I live in the United States. Thanks again. Adriannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-9947221242858146562022-11-22T13:17:21.038+01:002022-11-22T13:17:21.038+01:00Pleasure Adrian. As I always say, it is a simple c...Pleasure Adrian. As I always say, it is a simple concept in an otherwise complex world. People make it complex for themselves because they fail to grasp the basic principles.<br /><br />Yes, not many men have a grasp of how women think in emotional and psychological terms. They generally just make a joke of it or are too ignorant (or often arrogant) to the truisms that exist.<br /><br />So it sounds like brothers and cousins claim the main reason women reject good looking men is because of a lack of confidence and high trepidation (with good looking men). That kind of contradicts their theory, because if these good looking men are approaching women then that is a step above most men in cojones terms in the first place. Unless they are saying lesser looking men are more confident when interacting with women? <br /><br />Whilst I kind of agree with what they are saying - that a lot of good looking men are not very confident and efficient in interacting with women - it is not like the random mediocre guy is any better in this respect. Based on this equilibrium, you then need to ask the further question why most attractive women are with pronounced lesser looking men.<br /><br />If I was to hedge a bet, with the greatest respect to your brothers and cousins, I would make a guess that your relatives are more inclined to think that women choosing lesser looking men is because of what the man has to offer, rather than the woman's insecurity and ego being the leading reason. I guess you cannot blame a man for choosing to believe it is what he has to offer, over and above how a woman prioritizes her ego.Vi Nayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13032920019978546878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-81314045404510565262022-11-22T02:04:44.570+01:002022-11-22T02:04:44.570+01:00Thanks Vinay, you’re the best mentor I have. I hav...Thanks Vinay, you’re the best mentor I have. I have a cousin who’s about the same age as you, he’s 34 and he's been working as a male model in Mexico since he was about my age, 21. And I’ve asked him what he does when approaching women, but he doesn’t know as much as you. And my older brothers and other cousins don’t buy into the idea of women rejecting good looking men. They think it's either due to confidence, or being afraid of women. So thanks again Vinay.Adriannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-80457511036601594682022-11-21T15:42:30.460+01:002022-11-21T15:42:30.460+01:00Hi Adrian.
Take another look at this post:
https:/...Hi Adrian.<br />Take another look at this post:<br />https://www.vinaywcmd.com/2021/06/mention-girlfriend-to-negate-her.html<br />In addition to this however, there are 3 stages to first time conversation strategy with a girl you like:<br />1) Start a conversation which is relevant to any common ground you both have or the environment you both are in.<br />2) Break the touch barrier if feasible. If not, then go by the boyfriend question sooner rather than later.<br />3) Talk a little flirty/sexual to show her you are wanting her sexually.<br /><br />Being mean with a woman when she has done nothing to piss you off is unproductive. If she offers very little in responsiveness terms, then just walk away and don't even say goodbye. When you see her again, always acknowledge her in a medium ground (neither happy nor grumpy) manner, although to be fair with most women they do not have the confidence to give eye contact to men they are sexually attracted to anyway. You may find that your apathy draws her towards you on some occasions.<br /><br />In respect to asking her if she has a boyfriend, it is quite simple. An easy way is to devise a topic about couples. For example, I always mention that when I joined this gym during COVID time it was very couple oriented. That allows me to then ask her if she is in a relationship. When that is established, talk a little more but do not overstay your welcome. When leaving, ask her if she would like to go out.<br /><br />I have worked in sales / business development mainly. I have made extra money via investments. Not huge amounts, but far more than the average guy. You are not far off on the age assumption, and with a fresh haircut it knocks another couple of years off!<br /><br />All the best mate.<br />Vi Nayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13032920019978546878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-49170421269879135892022-11-21T09:10:56.418+01:002022-11-21T09:10:56.418+01:00Hey, Vinay, just a question, how exactly do your c...Hey, Vinay, just a question, how exactly do your conversations start with the women you have dated? I have no problem speaking with very pretty women or even asking them out. But I feel I kind of do it awkwardly. And also since I’m not so good at people reading, I’ve lost chances with girls that in hindsight were clearly interested, but I thought were just talking to me for attention, so I became mean with them. And this post highlights exactly what faces they made when talking to me, pictures 1 and 2. How do you transition from having a normal conversation to asking if she has a boyfriend and if she wants to go on a date sometime? Also side and kind of personal questions, what kind of job do you have, or do you own your own business, and what is your age? Since you said you own a sports car, and I’m curious cause by your posts it seems you’re 33. If you don’t want to answer the last questions it’s cool. Thanks Vinay. Learning how to date as a socially awkward introverted and good looking guy is kind of tricky. I can look like a douchebag pretty easily. Thanks again. Adriannoreply@blogger.com