tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post1857736970617767917..comments2024-03-16T15:29:13.544+01:00Comments on Women's choices: men's divorces : Young man dating an older womanVi Nayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13032920019978546878noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-6250141551145295862016-08-10T14:24:47.573+02:002016-08-10T14:24:47.573+02:00Hi Vinay,
You have just explained 90% of what has...Hi Vinay,<br /><br />You have just explained 90% of what has been happening to me. Point #1 haven't come to the realization yet, but now that you have explained it makes perfect sense.<br /><br />I definitely agree with the stroking of the older women's ego for snagging an attractive younger man. For those ones I usually try to gauge how much they are interested in me versus wanting to show off (if they really like me I disregard the showing off part).<br /><br />Also you are right about them being divorced, single mums and/or realizing their mistakes. The one from last week was divorced and she made sure that it was one of the first things that she told me (she was in her mid 40s though, my preference is early 30s when dealing with older women...I was curious in this case). <br /><br />On top of that I've also noticed it with a small selection of younger women who got tired of dating losers or abusive boyfriends etc, it seems they will venture onto green pastures by capturing a guy who is both well rounded and attractive to make up for the time wasted.<br /><br />Also your tip about dating women from 18-23 is SPOT ON! I did not realize this consciously, but when I recall from previous women I've dated they fall into these subsets. The younger ones aren't intimidated as much and are willing to take the risk.<br /><br />And yes I do find some of the younger ones immature and annoying to the point where I sometimes say "Why bother?"<br /><br />This was very helpful Vinay, I can now apply a conscious effort towards the points you have given me.<br /><br />Thanks,<br />BryceBrycenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-2727908239355764412016-08-06T12:59:37.696+02:002016-08-06T12:59:37.696+02:00The best answer I can give you is to refer back to...The best answer I can give you is to refer back to this post I published last year, with particular reference to the bottom four bullet points:<br />http://www.vinaywcmd.com/2015/05/hes-ok-to-look-at.html<br /><br />Of course, I'll give you a bit more than this considering you are a long time reader.<br /><br />In summary, based on you being somewhere between 25 to 27 and assumption you have been blessed with good looks (or worked on your physical and non-visual attractiveness to get there), it comes as absolutely no surprise to what you state: <br />1) Women your own age are looking for the next sucker who will give them a wedding and, if they aren't repulsed enough by him, a kid or two or three alongside his pay slip. They would not perceive you to be this man, and with their self-doubts of sliding physical beauty, they don't take kindly to a man looking better than them too.<br />2) Also unsurprising is the fact that it appears like older women are easier to attract (for dating and relationships) than women your own age. These women are often single mums, divorced, and/or realizing the mistakes they made choosing boring, safe men in the past. Older women fear rejection and broken hearts less - partly due to experience, but also due to having less to lose - than mid/late 20's broads. You also, no matter how much this may prick your pride, have to accept that the internal good ego feeling (and hence showing off to her friends) women like your date attain in dating a man many years younger is as, and probably more, important to her than the visceral attraction she has onto you.<br /><br />As for tips... I'm a few years older than you, but even now I know from first hand experience that a decent percentage of women aged 18 to 23 prefer dating older men (or at least the traits older men possess). At your age of 25 to 27, you should strive for women in this age bracket, as not only are they at their hottest but they are at the stage when they place more emphasis on male hotness than any other period in their life. Yes, I place a fair bet that you are not dissimilar to my friend in this post - in probably finding young women immature and annoying, whilst finding older women comfortable and easy to get on with - so only you can make the decision going forward.<br /><br />But if you are to follow my advice in seeking younger women of 18 to 23, but still tick the box in finding an easy going and intelligent (in relativity) woman, my tip would be to hunt for girls who are at university (or recently graduated), or women who haven't gone to university but only through choice and not a lack of intelligence. I'm not saying all women who go to university are the brains of Britain, but the sheer law of average should mean they are an IQ level or two above the standard female brain.<br /><br />If you are as attractive as people say, the above path shouldn't be too difficult. <br /><br />Hope this helps? Vi Nayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13032920019978546878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-15563387754508556802016-08-01T08:15:51.858+02:002016-08-01T08:15:51.858+02:00mid* 20smid* 20sBrycenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-60860126033782215912016-08-01T08:14:36.318+02:002016-08-01T08:14:36.318+02:00Wow funny that I'm reading this, I just got ba...Wow funny that I'm reading this, I just got back from a date with a woman who is 16+ years older. She says she has to be careful because I'm too sexy. I've noticed this a lot, always attracting older women, but when I try for girls my age they avoid me. People say I'm really attractive but younger females doubt I'd really stay with them. I'm miss 20s by the way.I've been a long time reader, any tips Vinay? Brycenoreply@blogger.com