"Fakeness cannot cloud irritable inner feelings"
If ever you need living proof to illustrate why women are just simply not designed to amicably get on in groups where competition for attention is at stake, just take a look at this:
One is clearly antagonistic towards not being the centre of attention, another likewise but concealing this irritability better, one feeling discomfort but there for the ride, and another really trying to convince the audience (and herself) that she is so so happy to be part of this magical group.
Needless to say, who is the most comfortable, gleeful, relaxed and amicable? You got it - the centre of attention herself!
By the way, if you listen to the lyrics it yet again smacks out language that doesn't reflect real life in terms of women's emotional habits and deliverables with men. The words would leave the naive bystander (as most people are) to think that a woman is so strong in the face of a man who, in her view, hasn't treated her right, and she has "moved on" so decisively.
In real life, you will find that when women post messages or verbally broadcast how "over" they are or how much he has lost a prized asset princess, they are in actuality not over him at all. Contrast this to the usual course of events where the woman has dumped a man because she is bored or he no longer has anything left to other her life path - hence with boring nice guys - and I don't see her shouting from the rooftops towards how easily this chapter of her life has been tackled. She will say nothing, as in truth she is totally indifferent towards the man, just like she was indifferent about him in the majority course of the relationship.
So songs like this are reflecting the rare occasions when a woman dated a sought after popular jerk who did treat her badly. They just conveniently don't tell you they go running back to these men, such is the fear of being instead with a mundane beta male that most men are.
As a man, never allow yourself to be washed in by crap within lyrics of this nature. For every case where a woman has been treated badly by a jerk, there will be half a dozen occasions where she manipulated, lied to, and used the perennial nice guy. Leave the washed in brains to the teenage girls, and God help us older women too, who these records are produced to market attract.
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By the way, if you listen to the lyrics it yet again smacks out language that doesn't reflect real life in terms of women's emotional habits and deliverables with men. The words would leave the naive bystander (as most people are) to think that a woman is so strong in the face of a man who, in her view, hasn't treated her right, and she has "moved on" so decisively.
In real life, you will find that when women post messages or verbally broadcast how "over" they are or how much he has lost a prized asset princess, they are in actuality not over him at all. Contrast this to the usual course of events where the woman has dumped a man because she is bored or he no longer has anything left to other her life path - hence with boring nice guys - and I don't see her shouting from the rooftops towards how easily this chapter of her life has been tackled. She will say nothing, as in truth she is totally indifferent towards the man, just like she was indifferent about him in the majority course of the relationship.
So songs like this are reflecting the rare occasions when a woman dated a sought after popular jerk who did treat her badly. They just conveniently don't tell you they go running back to these men, such is the fear of being instead with a mundane beta male that most men are.
As a man, never allow yourself to be washed in by crap within lyrics of this nature. For every case where a woman has been treated badly by a jerk, there will be half a dozen occasions where she manipulated, lied to, and used the perennial nice guy. Leave the washed in brains to the teenage girls, and God help us older women too, who these records are produced to market attract.
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Hi Vinay,
ReplyDelete"As a man, never allow yourself to be washed in by crap within lyrics of this nature. For every case where a woman has been treated badly by a jerk, there will be half a dozen occasions where she manipulated, lied to, and used the perennial nice guy."
This statement has so much truth to it most guys are still unaware of it. I see this especially true for women who play with men they aren't interested a lot. I noticed that they tend get used by top tier guys while they are using 4-5 beta guys.
I remember girl who would only want to be with me to get physical but didn't want anything else. 8 months later her current boyfriend texted me with her phone pretending to be her to see if she was still seeing, although we were never in a relationship. She contacted telling me how was he treating her and asked if she should continue... She continued seeing him. I believe he was a high status guy but nowhere near me in the looks department.
It was interesting to observe, as she moved to another state and we didn't talk since then, yet her boyfriend finds my number to contact me.