tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post907204192021434418..comments2024-03-16T15:29:13.544+01:00Comments on Women's choices: men's divorces : The 4 types of relationship womenVi Nayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13032920019978546878noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-37095513192459665802014-05-22T07:10:37.043+02:002014-05-22T07:10:37.043+02:00"When a man with high value engages with her ..."When a man with high value engages with her (the romantic), a feeling of discomfort, insecurity and vulnerability enters her mind. This is an amalgamated feeling that isn’t experienced with a nice guy or a bad boy. With them, she is somewhat in control."<br /><br />That was dead on! How does a vulnerable girl turn her insecurities around to not be feigned by rejection of a perceived "high quality man" then? Write a list of pros and cons and over emphasize the cons, so in her mind he's the one missing out? But in her gut feeling overrides logic, thus making her stop before they begin ("He's out of my league, I won't bother initiating anything because I will be rejected anyway")<br /><br />"...this woman will often find herself embraced with the jerks out there. These guys make her heart race, and although she is wary of them, she is slow to learn of their deficiencies "<br />- And in turn it makes her think she's not such a "nice girl" after all, considering she truly wants the jerk, bad boy. He makes her angry, but also turns her on. This is why the nice guy is given a chance, if only for a short period, to alleviate her guilt. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com