tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post4981934019077898456..comments2024-03-16T15:29:13.544+01:00Comments on Women's choices: men's divorces : Women being jealous of handsome men: explanations to the reasons behind their hostile mannerismsVi Nayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13032920019978546878noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-51928450487334381632023-01-11T17:32:52.984+01:002023-01-11T17:32:52.984+01:00I've done at least one post on men's dress...I've done at least one post on men's dress style in relation to his physical attractiveness - and the respective interface this has on female emotion and receptiveness.<br /><br />In essence, being stylish as a good looking man (in the real world, hence not fame) has diminishing returns to investment, to the point where it can even become counterproductive. Why? Simply, it just makes said good-looking man look even more unapproachable, unattainable, high-maintenance, and putting women's noses out of joint further still. The response therefore from women will range from admiration to hostility, but at either range of female emotion they will still see this man as someone they will do nothing more than look at.<br /><br />Savvy clothes give the best return on investment to average and above-average looking men. I doubt I need to elaborate why this is the case.<br /><br />It took me many years to comprehend this somewhat perverse circumstance, but then again, it took me a long time to realise the whole good-looking man/female distaste to it dynamic too. <br /><br />With this said however, I have maintained enjoying to dress with style. I just like fashion, and the feeling of certain clothes looking good on me. No woman or person will stop me doing that, otherwise I may as well be a puppet to societal inferiorities. Vi Nayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13032920019978546878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-76506388450396865472023-01-10T13:36:36.798+01:002023-01-10T13:36:36.798+01:00Thank you so much Mate....another situation recent...Thank you so much Mate....another situation recently. I was invited to a wedding and I was the only single guy and there were a few relatively attractive women there too....I literally felt confused because all eyes were on me but I couldn't seem to speak to anyone, couldn't even get a dance....to be honest I was even the best dressed guy and I knew that I even looked smarter than the groom...could that have compounded everything?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-90788154766564845562023-01-04T15:16:17.345+01:002023-01-04T15:16:17.345+01:00No problem mate.
I have to say that the broadcast ...No problem mate.<br />I have to say that the broadcast of the words "pretty boy" from a woman is rare. Especially coming from a hostile woman. On rare occasions you hear the words, it is common to arrive from the mouth of (very rare) women who are embracing of male good looks.<br /><br />The rest is just simple resentment on her part, as all explained earlier. You need to learn a few lines to throw back at women like her:<br />"You don't like me very much do you? Don't worry, I know I rub a lot of people up the wrong way, but the best people out there love me for who I am."<br />"Have you just sniffed dog shit, as it can't be me because I smell great."<br />"I really do put your nose out of joint don't I? I wonder why (with sarcasm in your tone and eyes rolled up)!?"<br />"Don't worry, I know I'm not your type as I have seen the guys you are usually with. I know I'm not good for your ego like them."<br /><br />Some of this can be construed as cockiness and arrogance, and generally this kind of male demeanour (if taken too far) has diminishing returns in comparison to the benefits it has for lesser looking men. That said though, it is a little price to pay and small risk to take against the rewards it has for putting a sour faced cow in her rightful place.Vi Nayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13032920019978546878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-51034047338141209422023-01-02T22:49:43.554+01:002023-01-02T22:49:43.554+01:00Thank you for your response bro. Firstly she gave ...Thank you for your response bro. Firstly she gave me a very dirty look and then she was like "I wonder what do such pretty boys want here", her mum asked her to bring me a glass of coldrink and she was like " let him fetch it himself since he's so much at home here" ...eventually she just got up and stayed indoors all the time while I was present ...<br /><br />Thanks for expounding and giving me perspective in light of the abovementioned Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-82495136737462214232022-12-16T15:29:41.996+01:002022-12-16T15:29:41.996+01:00Hey bro. Hope you are well?
To answer it with ful...Hey bro. Hope you are well?<br /><br />To answer it with full credibility, you will need to tell me what she said. Not word for word, but just the main things she was saying.<br /><br />I am working (based from her dad being 60) on the assumption that she is somewhere between 30 to 35? My immediate thoughts are:<br />1) As she is post 30 (but not at the total female give up on trying to look hot age of late 30's or beyond), she knows she is past her prime in beauty terms but she still lives with the past thoughts and vision of her younger self. This is common for women to be resentful of themselves and life if this is the case (as I think there is more than a fair chance it is the case).<br />2) As a by-product of her resentment as described in 1), this animosity is further compounded by the sight of you - a younger and better looking person than her, in gender relative terms. She will know you are creating attentive eyes from others onto you, and she does not like the feeling someone in the room is more attractive then her. She probably walked in that night thinking she would be the star of the show, and there stood you to put her nose out of joint.<br /><br />Whilst I do believe these are these main reasons, it is important to note that this kind of hostility can also arrive from younger women than said man too. It might not be as common or aggressive, but it is very much something I have experienced - hence, verbal and body language hostility from women I do not know personally. Nevertheless, it is more prominent with older women. <br /><br />In essence, the female age almost becomes irrelevant anyway. The fact of the matter is that most women's egos do not take fondly to the sight of a man who is more physically attractive than herself. This manifests to bring about female nasty attitude. Ironically of course, when a man punctures a woman's ego, she is usually more sexually attracted to him. Pounce on this luxury when you can....Vi Nayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13032920019978546878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-51657029801455396922022-12-12T14:26:29.540+01:002022-12-12T14:26:29.540+01:00Hi bro. There's something else I'm struggl...Hi bro. There's something else I'm struggling to make sense of...I was recently invited by a middle aged couple to the husband's 60th birthday. Upon arrival the couples daughter saw me and started throwing certain remarks at me and disrespected her parents for me being present at the party, keep in mind I don't know their daughter personally never spoke to her before but seen her couple of times in the past. What do you gather out of this?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-32275077361364622192022-12-04T00:20:25.280+01:002022-12-04T00:20:25.280+01:00Thanks broThanks broAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-24292493123583341582022-11-28T14:44:24.200+01:002022-11-28T14:44:24.200+01:00https://www.vinaywcmd.com/2022/11/detecting-womans...https://www.vinaywcmd.com/2022/11/detecting-womans-attraction-or-otherwise.html<br /><br />Voila, mon amiVi Nayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13032920019978546878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-55402353434997657692022-11-27T18:57:46.005+01:002022-11-27T18:57:46.005+01:00Hi bro. Pls send the link to this topicHi bro. Pls send the link to this topicAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-34568383605843148652022-11-13T15:02:43.473+01:002022-11-13T15:02:43.473+01:00Should be done on Tuesday bro.Should be done on Tuesday bro.Vi Nayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13032920019978546878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-27363512697906680612022-11-09T16:05:25.838+01:002022-11-09T16:05:25.838+01:00Thank you bro, when will you release the topic?Thank you bro, when will you release the topic?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-66571586781225447592022-11-07T16:27:39.351+01:002022-11-07T16:27:39.351+01:00I'll be posting on a topic soon that will give...I'll be posting on a topic soon that will give clues to a woman's receptiveness to a man's advances based on her facial expressions. That should be useful to you.<br /><br />Other than that, if you like a girl and she gives you the impression she would like to be approached, it is always a good thing to do so. Not only might she say "yes", but I can assure you that not knowing is a harder ache to your heart and mind than her saying "no".Vi Nayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13032920019978546878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-16630887803036340202022-11-07T14:54:01.434+01:002022-11-07T14:54:01.434+01:00Hi Mate, thank you for your response. It won't...Hi Mate, thank you for your response. It won't be an easy task but I'm certain that I'll be able to gather the courage.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-72348383071488270662022-10-30T15:36:47.032+01:002022-10-30T15:36:47.032+01:00Hi mate, hope you are well?
Try not to get too do...Hi mate, hope you are well? <br />Try not to get too down. When you master the world and yourself, you master others and the world. Life is too short to dwell on rejections or strange behaviour from women. Keep reading all the archives, and I'm sure you will gain both further perspective and practical field benefits when in the "pre relationship" phases.<br />CheersVi Nayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13032920019978546878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-28649160923703589092022-10-27T19:54:29.858+02:002022-10-27T19:54:29.858+02:00Greetings. Your article resonates so much with me....Greetings. Your article resonates so much with me. I'm a 26 year old single guy, I've always been told what handsome and pretty boy I am from a very tender age....my story is that girls have always been unfriendly towards me since being a little boy, I was never received well up until now, I'll even greet a woman and I'll either get a weird look or I won't ge greeted back, there are so many parents that are trying to introduce me to their daughters but it never works out because the daughter's always avoid me....I won't lie I feel depressed at times often wondering will I ever find someone. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-33099176102010569932022-07-01T12:15:29.896+02:002022-07-01T12:15:29.896+02:00Yes, it would have been one of two reasons:
1) As...Yes, it would have been one of two reasons:<br /><br />1) As you say, the woman in the park would not be up to the standards (aka hotness level, in the main) required by our friend. She knows this, and it is what caused her resentment, hostility and ridicule.<br />2) She actually was a woman who is hot enough for him to be interested in, but such is the egotistic nature of modern day women -(to put their egos ahead of their heart) that she takes choice and comfort to be in a relationship with a comparative uglier man (uglier than both herself in relative terms, and the better looking man she passed and dissed). As explained in the post, she is acting like this in the way to comfort herself, in knowing she could do better.<br /><br />All in all, women have an incredibly difficult task acting as a tug of war in their minds. A man who turns her heart and vagina on is usually a man who makes her feel more inferior and insecure about herself. A man who makes her feel better about herself is usually a man who doesn't turn her on / a man she does not find sexually attractive to a high degree. It is almost impossible for her to satisfy both of her needs within one man...Vi Nayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13032920019978546878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-32230712603260507852022-06-30T16:06:42.421+02:002022-06-30T16:06:42.421+02:00Being a handsome guy myself recieving a lot of att...Being a handsome guy myself recieving a lot of attention is good at first but it's some of the bad attention from women I get that frustrate me. People negatively judge handsome men like us beige they get to know them. I will try to help explain your cause. The woman who was with her boyfriend at the park probably immediately recognized that you were more attractive than her boyfriend. In my opinion I think she doubts that she can get a guy like you that's why she said that. Women who can get a handsome guy like you will have all sorts of negative notions about you. So basically she was hating on you. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-54794915908473370982021-03-30T12:35:44.519+02:002021-03-30T12:35:44.519+02:00I'll do a quick post on it mateI'll do a quick post on it mateVi Nayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13032920019978546878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-79346375847853189012021-03-28T04:38:57.778+02:002021-03-28T04:38:57.778+02:00Hey vinny, I get this alot from women. I am well b...Hey vinny, I get this alot from women. I am well built from home workouts so I get quite the looks in public. I would rate myself a solid 8 on the rise.<br /><br />My question is when a women is with her bf or husband and she makes a joke or nag on my appearance what would this mean ? This happened at the park today and the guy she was with was average from an honest opinion.<br />If she is so into him why would she even mention me in any kind of way joking or not, is there something going on in her subconscious mind about me?Anonymous 8https://www.blogger.com/profile/12229367465719577798noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-61387449152219658142017-01-21T06:37:39.102+01:002017-01-21T06:37:39.102+01:00That's exactly right.That's exactly right.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06400866632165889397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-25029807466537984332015-09-09T12:33:04.476+02:002015-09-09T12:33:04.476+02:00This is so interesting. I'm female, average lo...This is so interesting. I'm female, average looking I think- and I like to think I have a good personality. I've always wondered why some of my female friends always dated people who I think are no match with looks. :) This really explains a lot, because I don't believe I think this way, I really am attracted to good looking men, but my friends will usually tell me that they are too 'clean' or 'pretty'. Well... I really enjoyed the article. ^^Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10515592019780560668noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-29671400906312954822015-04-15T17:44:41.231+02:002015-04-15T17:44:41.231+02:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15095111899900473413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-2784982537788552562015-03-05T22:37:40.966+01:002015-03-05T22:37:40.966+01:00DAMN! YOU HIT THIS STUFF RIGHT ON THE NAIL. I WAS ...DAMN! YOU HIT THIS STUFF RIGHT ON THE NAIL. I WAS AT THE STRIP CLUB AND SOME GIRL WAS HATING ON ME SAYING THINGS SO I COULD HEAR IT. SHE WAS A YOUNG GIRL. (IM IN MY MID 20'S, LOOK LIKE 23) LOL. SHE WAS SAYING OH THERE ARE A LOT OF GAY GUYS THAT COME HERE. LOL WHAT THE FUCK? THIS IS A STRIP CLUB. LMAO. JEALOUS BITCH. ALL ANGRY BECAUSE I PAID HER NO ATTENTION. HONESTLY, LETTING IT GET TO YOU IS THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO. HOWEVER, I HAVE LOST MY COOL AND BITCHED ONE GIRL OUT ALMOST PUNCHING HER IN THE FACE. WOMEN NOW A DAYS ARE PATHETIC. SERIOUSLY. THEY HAVE NOTHING ONCE YOU REALIZE THERE ARE SO MANY OTHER WOMEN OUT THERE EVEN MORE DESIRABLE THAN THEMSELVES. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-58575867679943445572014-09-07T03:25:32.946+02:002014-09-07T03:25:32.946+02:00this writting is a great help to understand women....this writting is a great help to understand women. I always wonderd why women especily in groups want to put me down. Myself i wouldn't rate myself so high put it seems that women rate me high in order of hostility i get in public when i am on my own and sitting in a restaraunt or so.To say is that i live in a part of a city in germany where the unemployment is high. To decrease your chances with other women they will talk to each other telling he is gay so that poeple can hear it. The best way to react on this is to smile :) This will leave this bitter women with anger and frustration. I personly prefer cute girls they seem not to have this extend of bitterness in her brain when seeing a handsome men. I only can give the advise that this hostility against you should never birng doubts to you. Just go for cute confindent women and all be good. Matured women seem to be relaxed with handsome men. They have more confidence in their selfs but their are exceptions. And of course their will be women put theirselfs out the game because they feel to uncomfortable with your good looks or assume you are player. But nevertheless it is a advantage to be good looking because you can attract women easly and they will be in general open to you when they have the nesassery amount of confindece i search for. I can absolutly confirm your theories. Insecure good looking women or women who have invenst a lot of time to style their selfs will have a more intense aggressiv reaction against good looking guys the better he looks and/or has charisma. So good luck to you all stay in peace with yourself and forget about this angry women which are trapped in their limitit perception of of good looking people. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com