tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post1601487546208192571..comments2024-03-16T15:29:13.544+01:00Comments on Women's choices: men's divorces : Older woman and younger man psychologyVi Nayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13032920019978546878noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-57293999955957593922020-08-05T13:57:29.297+02:002020-08-05T13:57:29.297+02:00Hi mate.
1. Vi is my first name, and Nay is my su...Hi mate. <br />1. Vi is my first name, and Nay is my surname of course!<br />2. I would love to mate, but unfortunately the audience for written literature of this kind is a tiny minority. I mean, whilst most women deep down would accept what I write is the truth, <0.1% of women wouldn't admit this (let alone purchase a book about it). As for men, based on 90% of men putting their hands over their eyes and ears if they read/hear what I say, even a lot of the remaining 10% who don't blind themselves to these truisms are still resistant to the reality.<br />But who knows, one day I may still do this.<br />CheersVi Nayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13032920019978546878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-65308945966872157162020-08-03T02:02:22.793+02:002020-08-03T02:02:22.793+02:00Vi Nay may I ask you 2 questions?
1. why your name...Vi Nay may I ask you 2 questions?<br />1. why your name is split?..now is Vi Nay? is some meaning to your name?<br />2.I think you should publish your book,you can do it easily online <br />your wisdom is so deep about these topics,and I think you should format some pdf book and sell it for lets say..9,99?<br />this is because many people would appreciate it in a book format...really<br />Of course you can do it!,,if you want,of course:)Dannyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01418477617382189455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-3146598516669865932020-07-14T14:51:27.441+02:002020-07-14T14:51:27.441+02:00Pleasure mate. All the best in your future adventu...Pleasure mate. All the best in your future adventures with our good lady friends, and if you need any more advice or steers in the right direction, feel free to ask.Vi Nayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13032920019978546878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-24511350632447621452020-07-13T16:18:39.404+02:002020-07-13T16:18:39.404+02:00As always, a VERY good answer.
Thank you!As always, a VERY good answer.<br /><br />Thank you!komunistihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18236079342297875870noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-84311268852570035672020-07-13T15:31:46.853+02:002020-07-13T15:31:46.853+02:00Without of course knowing the girl you reference, ...Without of course knowing the girl you reference, reasons why a pretty woman may take precedence in religion/flesh cover up over exploitation of her physical beauty could be:<br />1) She is trying to "find herself" by some way of religion, culture and/or new adventure in life (I tend to think the latter would be the most likely of all). Maybe she has made so many past mistakes and misdemeanours that this is her way of removing all contrition from her mind.<br />2) The Muslim family are economically well off, and she sees him as a path for a better or easier life. In this case, the sacrifice of removing her physical beauty from the eyes of the world and other men is worth it for a path of provisioning and better path.<br />3) Aligned with 1), she has always dated jerks or men who have used her and now she thinks a nice guy is what she wants (if the Muslim guy is a nice guy?). Even though a nice guy is what she needs, he won't be what she wants. It won't end well if this is the case.<br />4) The Muslim boy is, despite the religion side of things, actually a bit of a bad boy/popular social proof guy. Let's be honest, if certain religions can condone terrorist attacks as part of abiding by their God, then religion of some kinds is no symbol for being a good person. So if he is a bad boy, all she is doing is nibbling the carrot he is dangling - for her to cover up her beauty. It's a bit like a butter wouldn't melt in your mouth sweet girl falling for a tattooed jerk, and three months into the relationship she has a sleeve tattoo herself.<br />5) He is an insecure nice guy or possessive jerk, and her covering up is being insisted by him to refrain her exploitation of hotness to other men.<br />6) She is totally smitten by him (which would 99% likely mean he sways towards the jerk curve and not nice guy), and she will abide by his family's religion customs in covering up.<br /><br />A list of reasons, with extreme possibilities, but probable that at least one of them will be the reason.<br /><br />In response to your final point - "that NOT all women have an ego or ego problems".... I'm pretty sure I have documented on this blog at least a couple of times that the female ego has varied levels depending on her character (whether innate or developed). Yes, the likelihood is the hotter the girl the bigger the ego, but two women of equal hotness can have differing ego levels. The female ego - and how far it stretches - is usually dictated by the respective confidence, self-consciousness and insecurity she possesses, and the decisions she makes on the back of this.<br /><br />Finally, a woman's choice of man can have polar opposite reasons to satisfy her ego. Some women (and it cannot be stressed how much of a small minority this is) may choose to date the hottest man they can get in order to elevate her ego in showing him off to her friends and foes. On the other hand, most women (the vast majority) will choose to be with a lesser looking man than herself in order to achieve an ego thrill boost in being the better looking of the two members in the partnership.<br /><br />So egos are a complex matter to analyse in this respect, and this is why anyone needs to judge by their own two eyes in assessing what they see by clear majority. My eyes tell me that 80% to 90% of women take the latter option - in dating a lesser looking man.Vi Nayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13032920019978546878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1136566595965586346.post-9095449726369016232020-07-11T19:39:30.481+02:002020-07-11T19:39:30.481+02:00Hello,
I would like to say that your work is very...Hello,<br /><br />I would like to say that your work is very good, however, I have noticed an oversight that cannot be overlooked.<br /><br />You say that women's egos are their main disadvantage, like when an 8/10th girl despises a handsome boy. As I said in this website, I am handsome and Asperger's.<br /><br />My lack of relationships gives me free time to think. My question is: why would a pretty blue-eyed blonde girl convert to some religion and cover herself up, like some converts to Islam?<br /><br />I personally know a Muslim boy in my neighborhood whose family has a blonde convert to Islam who wears a hijab and a djellaba. In other words, he covers himself up so as not to show his charms, which is neither good nor bad, it's just like that. <br /><br />What I don't understand is, as I said, the reason why a girl would leave her ego aside, ceasing to attract male glances and parties, to assume a different personality. <br /><br />Then it follows that NOT all women have an ego or ego problems, because those who follow conservative religions are willing to accept any type of man regardless of his physical beauty and without the ego problems that they are supposed to have.<br /><br />I await your answer,<br /><br />Greetings<br /><br />komunistihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18236079342297875870noreply@blogger.com